The wedding in the life of every person is an event bright, significant and memorable. So that it also becomes cheerful, it should begin, as is advised by traditions, with the ransom of the bride. Unfortunately, sometimes the bride and groom’s girlfriends approach this ritual too literally and set their goal to collect as much money as possible from the groom. In turn, modern grooms are not always ready for the bride ransom is not a bargain in the market, but the opportunity to show their ingenuity, a sense of humor and the ability to deftly solve the most tricky problems. In order to avoid such misunderstanding and conducting the bride’s ransom fun and original, for this tradition both the groom and the bride’s girlfriends should thoroughly prepare.
First of all, the groom and his friends can prepare not only the standard set for the ransom of the bride – money, alcohol and sweets, but, oddly enough, cheat sheets, because this ritual of the future husband can safely equate with the exam. Big sheets of paper with deliberately large inscriptions on them “cheat sheets” will look original in the hands of the groom, which will help him easily, quickly and completely unexpectedly for girlfriends to clearly answer questions about the exact date of his acquaintance with the chosen one, the birthday of his future mother -in -law and many others important details. Of course, for the use of cheat sheets, girlfriends of the bride can come up with more complex contests for him, which will only make the holiday more interesting.
But, in order for the ransom of the bride to be really fun, it is advisable to think through the contests and tasks in advance to the bride and her girlfriends, which will be offered to the groom and his friends during the ransom. So, if the future husband is strong in the composition of poems or the performance of romances, but not physically developed, you do not need to force him to carry heaviness – let him better write an appeal to his beloved or sing her to the Serenade under the window.
In some cases, the groom even needs to hint in advance about what trials await him when reducing his chosen one. But – this is the catch. So, the bride’s girlfriends tell her future husband that he will have to sing her favorite song. He has the opportunity to prepare and learn words, but, as he later turns out, and he will have to redeem the microphone, and the musical accompaniment under which he will sing “suddenly” will be completely different from another song. It can add to this funny competition a newlywed shiper prepared by friends, into which he will perform his favorite work of his half.
Of course, not only the groom should show his sense of humor during the ransom – his friends should also participate in this, because in many ways it depends on how original the tasks will be performed, given by the bride’s girlfriends. On such a day you do not need to perceive everything literally. If the groom, under the terms of the competition, needs to climb the stairs to the bride without stepping on a single threshold, then his friends can be raised in his arms and transfer him to his beloved – the conditions of the competition are not violated, and the ransom passes more fun.
When preparing the bride’s ransom, it is necessary to approximately calculate the time that will be spent on him – as practice shows, it is desirable that it passes no longer than 20-30 minutes. In addition, it is necessary to provide in advance the number of those involved in it both from the side of the groom and from the bride and, given the fact that the ransom, as a rule, takes place on a narrow landing in front of the bride’s apartment, limit their number, selecting only the most witty and the most witty and the most witty and funny.
And the main thing to remember is about – it is desirable that during the ransom there is no read by the conditions of competitions on a piece of paper resembling a business meeting, or expressed by the groom and his friends of dissatisfaction with their conditions. On this day, all unpleasant moments should fade into the background, because the newlyweds and invited should remember the day of the wedding triumph as the day of fun, laughter and jokes!